How do I deal with my father who is a complete jerk?
Let him know what he did and how it has affected you and that you will no longer tolerate being treated this way and that he will not be a part of your life as long as he continues to act this way. He won’t care but setting boundaries for yourself is empowering yourself and it feels wonderful.
How do you deal with a crazy dad?
If your dad is angry or violent, avoid arguing or trying to reason with him. In such a situation, the best way to handle the situation is to remain quiet and only speak when you are directly spoken to. Arguing or trying to explain your perspective may make him angrier and put you in harm’s way. Find a safe place to go.
How do I make my dad shut up?
If you want to get your father to shut up, I suggest you practice reflective listening with him. Whatever he says, rather than argue or roll your eyes or walk out of the room, say, “What I think you said was….” and repeat as much as possible his exact words.
Is it OK to tell your parents to shut up?
You shouldn’t tell people to shut up, because it’s disrespectful and you lose the possibility of learning from them. It’s more wise to bite your tongue and hear her out and form a valid argument.
How do you get my mom to stop yelling at me?
Ask your mom to walk over and lay a gentle hand on your shoulder if you appear not to have heard her when she spoke to you or ring a bell to get your attention. If you respond to your mom each time she speaks to you, she could feel less inclined to yell because she knows that you are listening.
Why does my dad get mad so easily?
Your father might be going through a lot of stress, so it manifests as anger. Sometimes when we are stressed, we take it out on others. It may be related to work, finances, etc. It’s hard to put up with someone who is never in a good mood, especially if they are your parent.
Why do I get angry so fast?
Some common anger triggers include: personal problems, such as missing a promotion at work or relationship difficulties. a problem caused by another person such as cancelling plans. an event like bad traffic or getting in a car accident.