What does the Bible say about holding on to the past?
Isaiah 43:18 -19 says, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
How do I forget the past and move on with my life?
8 Steps to Move Away From the Past You Need to Leave Behind
- Learn from the past but don’t dwell there. Yes.
 - Express yourself. Don’t hesitate to get the pain you’re feeling off your chest.
 - Stop pointing fingers.
 - Focus on the present.
 - Disconnect for a while.
 - Think about the people around you.
 - Forgive those who wronged you — including yourself.
 - Make new memories.
 
How do you move on from past mistakes?
How to Forgive Yourself
- Focus on your emotions.
 - Acknowledge the mistake out loud.
 - Think of each mistake as a learning experience.
 - Give yourself permission to put this process on hold.
 - Have a conversation with your inner critic.
 - Notice when you are being self-critical.
 - Quiet the negative messages of your inner critic.
 
How do I stop looking back at past mistakes?
Here are important tips and advice for learning to better “let go” of your past mistakes.
- Accept mistakes are a part of life.
 - Forgive yourself.
 - Be aware of your feelings.
 - Write about your mistakes.
 - Focus on what’s in your control.
 - Be patient with yourself.
 - Think a kind thought about yourself.
 - Talk to someone you trust.
 
How do I stop thinking about something I regret?
How to Overcome Regret
- Own up to it. Accept your responsibility in the negative experience.
 - Move on. Let go of what you cannot and could not control.
 - Apologize. If you hurt another person—whether intentionally or inadvertently—apologize, mend bridges, or otherwise express how you feel.
 - Free yourself.
 - Learn from it.
 - Say thanks.
 
How do I stop dwelling on regrets?
5 Steps to Overcoming Regret
- Accept the reality of the thing you regret. The mistakes are real.
 - Forgive yourself. Show yourself the same kind of mercy you want others to extend when you have wronged them.
 - Make amends.
 - Forget what is behind you.
 - Do the opposite of what you regret.
 
How do I stop dwelling on my thoughts?
- Is it worth it? If you find that your mind is fixated on a certain situation, ask yourself if the dwelling is actually worth your time.
 - Set aside time to think.
 - Imagine the worst case scenario.
 - Identify your anxiety trigger.
 - Focus on the positives.
 - Talk to a friend.
 - Distract yourself.
 - Practise mindfulness.